It is common practice for Catholics to pray for the souls in Purgatory but what about if you’re not sure whether a particular soul made it there at all? We have no way of knowing for certain the destination of any soul but especially the souls of our non-Catholic friends and relatives. Once someone has passed on, maybe years or decades or centuries ago, isn’t it too late to help save them from the possibility of going to hell? Absolutely not: God exists outside time and so our prayers can transcend the barriers of time also. We can’t pray for the souls in hell but we can pray for last-minute conversions and for graces to be granted retrospectively before souls reach hell. And now I have realised, thanks to this article (thank you so much Melissa), that we can even pray for our own little suffering selves in the past to ease the current consequences of our childhood traumas.
Last year, I had a conversation with a Buddhist nun who I happened to see when I was driving here in rural Ireland. She had converted from Catholicism to Buddhism, and expressed surprise when I told her that I was thinking of doing the opposite. She said that it usually goes the other way. I can see why. After the Second Vatican Council in the sixties, the old teachings of Catholicism were mostly put aside, and subsequent generations of Catholics have been feeling the vacuum that was left behind. It seems to me that the Eastern teachings that are being adopted in the West now were probably already present in a different yet fuller form in the traditional practices of the Church, at least among monastics.
I’m not an expert in either Buddhism or Christianity but even novices can notice the obvious. For example, any Buddhist reading The Practice of the Presence of God would be hard pressed not to see the parallels between Brother Lawrence’s practices and the Buddhist practice of mindfulness. Plus Brother Lawrence appears to exhibit the Buddhist virtue of equanimity. Also, I believe that when Christians pray for their friends and their enemies, they are effectively practising metta or loving-kindness. When they pray the Jesus Prayer they are effectively using a mantra. When they kneel in contemplation they are meditating. See Baba Yesuda’s post for an Indian holy man’s advice on a form of contemplation which (superficially) appears Buddhist but is actually Catholic.
In a book I just read – “The Scent of Holiness” by Constantina Palmer – the author quotes an Orthodox elder who says “Christ did not come to abolish suffering, but to show us how to suffer.” Jesus teaches us how to transform our suffering by orienting our lives towards God. The Buddha teaches us how to transcend our sufferings through the Noble Eightfold Path, which effectively cultivates the same virtues that Christians exhibit as they become more holy. In “The Scent of Holiness”, an Orthodox nun recommends a book called “Christ the Eternal Tao” by Hieromonk Damascene to a Buddhist Westerner. I haven’t read this book but it shows that I’m not the first to notice the overlap of Eastern and Christian traditions.
I have also come across a few stories that occur in both Buddhist and Christian traditions as teaching aids. For example, there is the story of two monks (one scrupulous and the other charitably pragmatic) crossing a river, and the story of a slandered priest, which is called “Is That So?” in the Buddhist tradition. Now I’m not interested in speculating about whether these stories arose independently, or if one tradition borrowed from the other. My point is that the teachings overlap so much that they can use the same stories for illustration. However, I’m not trying to suggest that the teachings are equivalent. Buddhism is lacking one crucial, pre-eminent element.
I didn’t expect to find the Buddha’s teachings in Catholicism. As far as I am aware, the Buddha avoided questions about God, did not seek to be worshipped as a god, and did not like to expound on the afterlife. He was concerned with teaching people how to transcend the sufferings of their mortal existence. I found the teachings very efficacious in this regard. However, the unanswered questions continued to nag at me until I was forced to look elsewhere. Humans have a natural need to answer existential questions like “Why am I here?” and “What is the point of it all?” A lot of us have the conviction that death is not the end, and that there is a spiritual element to our existence. We want to know the answers. And I have finally found (d’oh!) that Jesus gave them to us roughly 2000 years ago.